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2005-10-14T21:43:00.001+05:30

What is life? What is love? Who am i? What am i? What is realization? Why cannot two things be done at the same time? Does anyone understand me? Does giving a 'CHANCE'exists?.... I know not if the things i meant here does make sense or not. Even in my blog here, It might be just my thoughts put across . Am confused and i don't want to write my thoughts on paper anymore when everything in my life is shaken up and incomplete in what i believe. Thanks for dropping by, have a great day the way you want it to be. Bye

Poverty in India !!!

2005-09-19T04:27:00.000+05:30

I heard My love's sister call my love and tell her to watch a BBC program about Poverty in INDIA and i felt, Let me check and let people know where we stand. You know what ??? you would be shocked as i was when i found what i found. I wanted this to be shared among the people of india who would be reading my Blog Page. nononononon am not ashamed of what's my countries halat is when it comes to poverty, am happy am atleast intrested what's happening and hope you too would agree on knowing more.. things that are bothering people like us at the back of our minds. But never seriously thought about it. Did you Know that?
Even more than 50 years after independence from almost two centuries of British rule, large scale poverty remains the most shameful blot on the face of India.
India still has the world’s largest number of poor people in a single country. Of its nearly 1 billion inhabitants, an estimated 350-400 million are below the poverty line, 75 per cent of them in the rural areas.
More than 40 per cent of the population is illiterate, with women, tribal and scheduled castes particularly affected.
It would be incorrect to say that all poverty reduction programmes have failed. The growth of the middle class (which was virtually non-existent when India became a free nation in August 1947) indicates that economic prosperity has indeed been very impressive in India, but the DISTRIBUTION OF WEALTH has been very uneven.
The main causes of poverty are illiteracy, a population growth rate by far exceeding the economic growth rate for the better part of the past 50 years, protectionist policies pursued since 1947 to 1991 which prevented large amounts of foreign investment in the country.
Poverty alleviation is expected to make better progress in the next 50 years than in the past, as a trickle-down effect of the growing middle class. Increasing stress on education, reservation of seats in government jobs and the increasing empowerment of women and the economically weaker sections of society, are also expected to contribute to the alleviation of poverty.
Eradication of poverty can only be a very long-term goal in India.

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So, the Question here is how have you or how are you going to contribute to overthrow poverty ?

A beautiful Place called Earth !!!!!!

2005-09-19T04:15:00.000+05:30

I was just going around searching for some information on the WWW !!! and i got this picture which reminded me of my younger days. Just wanted to share with you all the fairness, goodness, honestness, principles, truthfulness, uprightness, delicacy, self-effacement of these young faces below. This is our world and we got to make it a better place to live in. the remember the song of Michael Jackson " Make it a better place for you and for me and the entire human race".

Enhancing Relationships !

2005-08-01T09:28:00.000+05:30

Hi people , it's been a while that i have been away. Just came across an article which you guys got to check. It's called the "Enhancing Relationships "!

TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation. A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB.Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is." Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".

NO POINTING FINGERS A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?" The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you." We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves. If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.

CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS? A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television." There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.

NO OVERPOWERING Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character." It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..

RIGHT SPEECH There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other,we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party. A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you." Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.

PERSONAL PERCEPTION Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home,a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?"Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey. Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman." The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders. It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future. Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..

BE PATIENT This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy,I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed suicide. Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

Hope the above helps atleast one human being .

My First Car !

2005-07-03T13:13:00.000+05:30

Hello Poeple !!! Oppps sorry was busy, am busy and will be busy for the next 2 months. So, no more blogging for sometime. Anyways wanted to let you guys know i got my first car a MARUTHI "ZEN".. ofcourse BLACK . I don't know, I had planned for a MARUTHI "SWIFT" but the dealer says got to wait for 6 months. To hell with 6 months. So got a "ZEN" .. .... ok got to go now .. am stuck with some work ..c ya all soon.. hey one sec before i go .. the funny part is i don't know driving ..how stupid can i be, going for driving classes from tomorrow .. :-)

Oppps!!!!

2005-05-13T18:28:00.000+05:30

No blogging for couple of more days’ guy!! I would be busy with work. Till then take care cherish your life!

People living deeply have no fear of death. Expect nothing, live frugally on surprise, because I have loved life, I shall have no sorrow to die. So better live your own life and cherish it than repenting later!

Present Experience ... for a better future !!

2005-05-12T14:10:00.000+05:30

If you have read the newspapers or watched television during the past years, you might have wondered if our Indian people will survive another decade. And if they do, what sort of future they will have. With all the BPO's (my work place :-), the software companies sourcing their work to us "Bangaloreans".

In the past years, Indians are facing a crisis with education as well as justice. There is fear that people are not truly represented in their desired fields of work at times. While people who are good for nothing, cry about ten people out of a hundred being unable to find a job, some reservations have only ten percent working. Then there are the problems of family breakdowns, drug and alcohol abuse, suicide and rising crime rates. It is not a pretty picture right guys! We Bangaloreans have seen the good old days when it was less crowded to the present days where we feel we are going to die with this kind of everyday traffic and pollution. But coming from a reserve, I look behind the scenes at the people themselves and I see some things different. The problems are still there, but I see people who want to do something about them. They want a chance to shape their own future and the future of their children. I see people who have been crushed and bruised, but who are trying very hard to get back on their feet. They want a chance to make a place for themselves in modern day society.

The Good old days

The history of the Indian people is one of strength, love and discipline. Our forefathers lived under a very strong tradition. They had complete trust in the Great Spirit. They had purpose in life, and a place of their own with physical, emotional and spiritual dignity. Because there was no written system, the record of spiritual teaching was not put in a book. It was passed on by word of mouth, with old people telling the young, generation after generation. But very few would agree on this :-(

Destroyed by change

Then the white man came with his culture has seeped into our Indian culture. Our people were faced with a great, sudden change in their style of life. Things that took the Americans 300 years to learn and accept were supposed to be adopted by the Indian in only a couple of years. This shock of this change is very great. It destroyed many of the cultural and traditional values. As a result, many of our people gave up hope. Like me, i mean it. I lost the Indian culture touch altogether, ask my friends Loky, Ashok and Harsha, they know it.

Waking up

The awakening of the Indians to out culture back to it's glory would be very very difficult, with the rush of international company's employing people in India. Of course the generation to come wouldn't even know as to what our Indian culture is all about?

A bright future

As I look at all the resources that are available to the Indians now, I can see that our future is bright. At the same time people like me are out into the modern material things in life rather than our culture & tradition.

Today’s Question:Do you agree that Indian Culture & Tradition is in condensation status?

Everything in Life is a Gamble !

2005-05-11T16:31:00.000+05:30

Gamble with daily life for ones own winning is a very few peoples choice. I say, “Without a gamble in life, people perish.” From those childhood games, I moved on to gamble in life with daily decisions and things we had in each ones life. I really love the challenge, the adrenaline flow, the excitement of the moment, and the thrill of the chase, the anticipation, and the teasing of luck. Gamble is a vital and important part of my life. It possessed me to the extent that I didn’t give enough attention to other matters. My mother tried to instill in me a great love of God and I spent a lot of hours in learning about what was good and what was bad. I even now believe that you need to take risks in life with the right +ve attitude.

For once you might get to make decisions where it is very crucial, plan, think & execute for the best. Never go back and loose the once in a lifetime opportunity. All along I gamble on the trust of men and women, and I win — you can trust people.
I have been winning all of my life at one point or the other with some losses, so I have to recommend this to you: take the gamble — shoot for the stars. If you miss, you will still be far above most of the people who never gamble.

What do you say about this?

MY WONDERFUL TEAM - "ECHELON" -

2005-05-11T15:34:00.000+05:30

From Left on the couch (The Intelligent - Manoj, The Sleepy Boy - Poorna Chandra, The Ever Smiling face - Gaurav, The Philosopher - Tabrez, The One - Myself, The Quality - Vasu, The Baby - Suzan, The Responsible one - Suresh, The Rock Star - Karthik). Still Standing from left (The girl - Geetanjali, The one with too many doubt's - Muzzamil, The Brilliant - Chitrakala, The less talker - Ramya, The Brainy - Sandeep, The Determined - Karunakaran, The Party animal - Daniel, The Animal Lover - Ranjani, The Support - Dass, The Music lover - Arun, The kid - Ajaz, The Spirit - Kavi Arasu & last but not the least you can't see his face The silent boy - Bhaskar. The Confused is not there in the Picture - Sunil). These are the guys who make me come back to office day after day. Thank You Guys!

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The Bangalore Room

2005-05-09T02:54:00.000+05:30

I was feeling bored on the Internet and so taught of checking the Bangalore room at rediff which was frequented by me couple of years back when I was 19 yr old. It's been a long time so tried to remember my old user name and password to get into the room, fortunately I got scored to the Bangalore room. For my surprise the room wasn't crammed as it used to be, just 10 people around. For today's male, the ways of finding a date online has increased significantly, cause every time a gals id used to pop up in the room. All the guys used to fall upon that id with messages, GOD help them. Online it's a different ball game altogether. Many want to know if there are any rules of the game or guidelines to make the process easier. Others are unsure as to when to make the first move and how to handle intimacy. This in turn makes the other person feel insecure and leave the chat room. GOD help these men who are so desperate to get a gal online by just their chat login id's. The funny part is they don't even know if the person is a guy or a gal. loll... So guys stop trying to get gal on the net and start walking up to them, when you see one (women) and this might help.

Today's Question
'What is the best way of finding women online?'

SUNI this is for you - EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL What it means ? How you can overcome this ?

2005-05-08T11:41:00.000+05:30

Today me and one of my very good friends had an argument on emotional blackmail article, which I have previously written in this Blog, a day or two back.

She doesn't believe EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL actually exists. So, I had to convince her that I would be writing an article on what EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL is all about and to check if she would agree it exists.

Emotional blackmail is a powerful form of manipulation in which people close to us threaten (either directly or indirectly) to punish us if we don't do what they want. At the heart of any kind of blackmail is one basic threat, which can be expressed in many different ways: If you don't behave the way I want you to, you will suffer. A criminal blackmailer might threaten to use knowledge about a person's past to ruin her reputation, or ask to be paid off in cash to hide a secret. Emotional blackmail hits closer to home. Emotional blackmailers know how much we value our relationship with them. They know our vulnerabilities. Often they know our deepest secret. And no matter how much they care about us, when they fear they won't go their way, they use this intimate knowledge to shape the threats that give them the payoff they want: our compliance. Knowing that we want love or approval, our blackmailers threaten to withhold it or take it away altogether, or make feel we must earn it. For example, if you pride yourself being generous and caring, the blackmailer might label you selfish or inconsiderate if you don't accede to his wishes. If you value money and security, the blackmailer might attach conditions to providing them or threaten to take them away. And if you believe the blackmailer, you could fall into a pattern of letting him control your decisions and behavior. We get locked into a dance with blackmail, a dance with myriad steps, shapes and partners.

Emotional blackmailers hate to lose. They take the old adage "It doesn't matter if you win or lose, it's how you play the game", and turn it on its head to read, "It doesn't matter how you play the game as long as you do not lose." To an emotional blackmailer, keeping your trust doesn't count, respecting your feelings doesn't count, being fair doesn't count. The ground rules that allow for healthy give-and-take go out the window. In the midst of what we thought was a solid relationship it's as though someone yelled "Everyone for himself!" and the other person lumped to take advantage of us while our guard was down. Why is winning so important to blackmailers, we ask ourselves. Why are they doing this to us? Why do they need to get their way so badly that they'll punish us if they don't?

E.g.: Emotional Blackmailers:
Threaten to make things difficult if you don't do what they want.
Constantly threaten to end the relationship if you don't give in.
Regularly ignore or discount your feelings and wants.
Tell you or imply that they will neglect, hurt themselves, or become depressed if you don't do what they want.
Shower you with approval when you give into them and take it away when you don't.
Use money as a weapon to get their own way.

Below are some specific ways to answer the most common types of responses. It can't emphasize too strongly how important it is to practice saying these statements until they feel natural to you. How to respond to the other person's catastrophic predictions and threats. Punishers and self-punishers may try pressuring you to change your decision by bombarding you with visions of the extreme negative consequences of doing what you've decided to do. It's never easy to resist the fear that their bleak vision will come to pass, especially when the theme they're pounding home is "Bad things will happen - and it'll be your fault." But hold your ground

When they say: Then you say:
If you don't take care of me, I'll wind up in the hospital/on the street/unable to work. * That's your choice.
* You'll never see your kids again. * I hope you won't do that, but I've made my decision. * I know you're very angry right now. When you've had a chance to think about this, maybe you'll change your mind.
* You'll destroy this family. * Why don't we talk about this again when you're less upset?
* You're not my child anymore. *Maybe you'll change your mind
* I'm cutting you out of my will. * Why don't we talk about this again when you're less upset?
* I'll get sick. * Threats/suffering/tears aren't going to work anymore
* I can't make it without you.
* I'll make you suffer. * I'm sorry you're upset
* You'll be sorry.
* I can't believe you're being so selfish. This isn't like you. You're only thinking of yourself. You never think about my feelings. * You're entitled to your opinion.
* I really thought you were different from the other women/men I've been with. I guess I was wrong. * That could be.
* You may be right.

* That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard.

I frankly thing EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL need to be kept in mind whenever a person talks so that he know what he /she is talking about. Please feed in your comments as to what do you think on this?

If you want to know more on EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL write back and I would be more than glad to explain in detail.

MOMMY !!!!!

2005-05-07T13:57:00.000+05:30

You are the kindest cute face I'll ever see,
You are the kindest feminine voice I'll ever hear.
You are the one who cares the most about me
It's only you ! my own darling mother.

All through the year
I'll try to do the things that show
My love for you and not to be happy just to say,
"I love you, Darling Mother," on Mother's Day
"HAPPY MOTHERS DAY" to all the Darling MOM's.

EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL !!!

2005-05-06T12:24:00.000+05:30

Today I had to walk a km to the damn lifts at my ITPL office. So, I thought it's better to walk down the stair. While walking down the stair, I was lost in some speculative thinking about my new team. I met this office boy who is just 15 yrs old, seeing me with a cigarette in hand and the look on my face. He approached me and asked me if I wanted a coffee or tea, with this the conversation took place between us, I was real amazed with the kind of English language that he spoke. After a couple of min, I presumed that he had to work cause he had his sick mom and a sister whom he had to take care of and that's the reason he had to start working from a very young age of 12. I don't understand how can people employee underage people isn't it "CHILD LABOUR". The kind of sentimental person he was, I felt our people would never understand what kind of phases do our younger Indian generation is facing. Even after 50+ years of INDIAN INDEPENDANCE there are several youths in INDIA who cannot study just because they have this "EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL" which makes them to start working at a very young age to support their families. And it's not about male chauvinism or about lack of energy nor the lack of will to help each other in the family. All that the people (i.e. " who have no freaking work in life") & the government can think of is infrastructure for big offices, fight for some stupid goddamn movie release, some waste of time " HARTHAL's" which stops and makes the sticking traffic more polluting & suffocating the environment. It might seem vague on my part to interweave these things. I do agree that everyone has to work for him or her to survive. But isn't CHILD LABOUR an offence. Have a Say? Feed your comments.

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2005-05-05T10:45:00.000+05:30

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99 SECRETS GIRLS HAVE TO KNOW ABOUT GUYS !!

2005-05-04T13:34:00.000+05:30

Pretty long one, but makes an interesting read...

Girls, this is for you ......Believe me ... each line is complete Truth, it is long list, but TRUE!!!

1 Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
2 Guys hate flirts.
3 A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4 When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.
5 "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6 Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7 When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8 Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
9 Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.
10 Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
11 When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.
12 Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!
13 Guys cry!!!
14 Don't provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
15 Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16 Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17 When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.
18 Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what...uh...never mind!" would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
19 Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
20 Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21 When a guy makes a prolonged "umm" or makes any excuses when you're asking him to do you a favor, he's actually saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.
22 When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow."
23 You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24 Guys hate gays!
25 Guys love their moms.
26 A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
27 A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.
28 You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29 If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
30 Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31 Like Eve, girls are guys' weaknesses.
32 Guys are very open about themselves.
33 It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him wait that long.
34 No guy is bad when he is courting
35 Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty... even a small dot.
36 Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much pretty.
37 Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38 If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
39 A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40 A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41 Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42 Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
43 Guys virtually brag about anything.
44 Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45 Guys think too much.
46 Guys' fantasies are unlimited.
47 Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight does!
48 Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!
49 When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50 It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they've been together for 3 years or more.
51 You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
52 A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.
53 When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54 Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55 Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
56 When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably see that he is nervous.
57 When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
58 When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me"
59 Guys don't really have final decisions.
60 When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61 If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.
62 If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63 Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64 Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65 Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
66 A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
67 A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68 Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69 Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!
70 A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71 A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
72 Don't be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
73 Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be surprised.
74 Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
75 Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
76 Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.
77 Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
78 When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
79 Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80 Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they'll realize they're wrong.
81 Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.
82 Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83 Guys' weakest point is at the knee.
84 When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85 When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86 When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed of you or he's criticizing you.
87 When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88 If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89 If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
90 Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91 You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
92 If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93 When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94 You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
95 Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96 Girls are allowed to touch boys' things. Not their hair!
97 If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.
98 Guys hate girls who overreact.
99 Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

If Ur a Guy then u'd a wide grin at most of the lines, cos U never thought that someone will actually write all these down. And girlz will have a hectic time goin thru all their past misconceptions on Guyz.

MY LIFE SO FAR - Jane Fonda

2005-04-27T22:21:00.000+05:30

As her book goes on -- and it's a long book, though very well written and swiftly paced -- it seems evident that Fonda is less interested in her acting past than in other aspects of her life.There is much more than a distant war in these pages, though. Fonda, for instance, writes affectingly of her mother's suicide and her father's arm's-length treatment of her and her brother Peter, who has wrestled with a demon or two himself. Indeed, Henry Fonda emerges less noble, and surely less likable, than his movie image; his irascibility in "On Golden Pond" was no act, Fonda reveals, and it had been well practiced for decades.. I recommend you to go ahead and read this book. To know as to why people write a book on their own life.